Labor Day, 2023
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Labor Day, 2023

Labor Day, 2023

That’s when his soul went on to find peace

Even though some things will never be the same

We are stronger now as we move through the pain

Labor Day, 2023

If there’s one thing I wish the world could see

It’s that grief is just love with nowhere to go

We love him so much, and we just want him to know

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Nine Years With Type One Diabetes -This Year’s Lessons On Balancing Mental & Physical Health
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Nine Years With Type One Diabetes -This Year’s Lessons On Balancing Mental & Physical Health

Today, August 4th, is my nine year diabetes diagnosis anniversary (or diaversary as said in the diabetic world). Every year when this day pops up, I reflect on the wild ride that is managing type one diabetes (T1D) and how the year’s events have affected my glucose management and vice versa.

This past year has opened my eyes to the connection between mental & physical health, as well as the importance of balancing them

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You Can’t Take It with You When You Go, But What You Leave Behind May Live On
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You Can’t Take It with You When You Go, But What You Leave Behind May Live On

We of course want to honor, remember and feel connected to someone we love who has passed on, and utilizing/keeping some of their belongings can be a great way to do that, but at the same time, it may feel like we’re robbing the dead, being insensitive or trying to move on without them too quickly… But on the other hand, are we to memorialize them with their earthly possessions left in place? If so, for how long? Is that what they would want us to do? Let’s examine more below.

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The Detroit Cap On My Dash
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The Detroit Cap On My Dash

White and quilted, embroidered in blue
Elastic backing with an Old English D sewn through

It was given away at a Tigers game for free
I used to have the same one, but I lost it… you know me

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Hope Floats, Rivers Flow
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Hope Floats, Rivers Flow

When the thunder rolls and lighting strikes
Are we going to bunker down?
Will we assume it will always be this way
Or let our guards fall to the ground?

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It’s Different This Time
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It’s Different This Time

I’m driving back to Michigan, but it’s different this time. My dog is riding with me, lighter things are on my mind. Popsicles, bonfires, swimming in the pool.
Letting these kids be kids -for them, this year has been a bit cruel.

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Evergreen
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Evergreen

When you know that a tree has the potential to be lush and green, produce flowers and even change colors, it’s naturally a bit underwhelming to look out instead at a sea of sticks all winter. Like clockwork, I always feel barren and lackluster in the winter months. I want to hibernate like a bear and rise from my mossy burrow in the spring, ready for a stretch & a little snack. But, hibernation hasn’t been on the adulting menu, so pushing through like the rest of the humans has been my only option. That makes the feeling of summertime that much sweeter.

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What Happened To You?
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What Happened To You?

Even calm waters have the ability to sink a ship. So, what does all of this mean? It means none of us are immune to grief -it’s a part of the human experience. It can break us or shape us depending on how we navigate the waters, upkeep our vessel and what we’re open to learning along the journey.

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